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For years, I swore I’d never have anal sex. I believed that it would have to hurt, and that it couldn’t possibly be pleasurable for the receiver. I saw it as degrading and icky and altogether something I wanted no part in. Then, this year, I started reading sex toy reviews . . . → Read More: Adventures in Buttsex (Note: the following post should not be taken as advice. It is only my personal experience.) “Don’t beat yourself up.” That is what therapists have told me, self-help books have told me, friends and family have told me. Telling yourself how terrible you are is self-defeating, it paralyzes you, it doesn’t help. You . . . → Read More: Don’t Beat Yourself Up I’ve gotten a few messages from women who feel a need for sexual submission, but don’t know how to tell their partners. (They are all, like me, women in serious relationships with men, so this post is going to be tilted in that direction, though I hope it will help others as well.) I can give . . . → Read More: So you want to be a submissive I’ve been looking at posts and articles about feminine submission. Some are rather nice: they talk about how a woman can be a feminist and sexually submissive, for instance, or tell personal stories, or talk about what submission means to the writer. Others are not so nice. These come in two major groups: the first claims that a . . . → Read More: All women are NOT submissive The other day I was talking about sexuality, BDSM in particular, with someone who was pretty freaked out about it. She voiced a common opinion: “I guess it’s okay so long as it’s consensual, but liking pain can’t be healthy.” She meant “healthy” psychologically. I’ve discovered rather recently that I myself like pain in a controlled, loving, . . . → Read More: Coming to terms with BDSM Brilliant post title, huh? OK, I suck at titles. But this has been rattling around in my brain for a while, and I can’t seem to write anything else until I get it out. Very recently — within the past month — I’ve discovered that I’m sexually submissive. “Discovered” is perhaps the wrong term; it’s more like . . . → Read More: Sexually submissive
“You’re sure?” “Yes, I want you to,” she breathed. His eyes flashed with desire. He covered her mouth roughly with his as he climbed on top of her. He lay her arms above her head. . . . → Read More: An Erotic Vignette The 21-hour train ride ended at about 12:30 today. I’ve been spending time with K since then, and have discovered that I really like being on the receiving end of a flogger. A lot. This is somewhat surprising to me. Anyway, I have a few reviews to post this week, once I . . . → Read More: I am back! |
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