Slavery exists in the real world. It’s horrific. If K were literally my master, I would do anything and everything in my power to free myself, though I would probably fail, because slavery rests on the slave having no power. If I were truly his slave — if I could not legally, or physically, or psychologically . . . → Read More: Master and Slave?
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I’ve been having a bit of a problem lately — K’s been too nice. When I suggest something while we’re having sex, he does it, very nearly every time. (This is usually something like “please choke me” or “please hold me down”.) Which is great, except it makes me feel like I have far too much control. I . . . → Read More: I Do Mean Dominate Me K informed me tonight that he was going to fuck me, and told me to go lie down on the bed and wait for him. While fucking me, he held me down and called me “whore”, “slut”, “bitch”, etc, and forced me to say I was all those things, and existed only for him to fuck. . . . → Read More: Mundane I love bdsm toys. Bondage tape, floggers, gags, restraints, belts, hairbrushes, rope — whatever, I love them. They’re hugely fun, and I recommend everyone who likes sex get some (preferably from my affiliate links), even if for the lightest, most occasional use. Being bound and/or beaten into submission is a wonderful thing. But I must be honest. . . . → Read More: Control Last night, K and I roleplayed a long, involved ravishment scenario. I told him that he couldn’t be too rough, too cruel, or too frightening. He held me down, hurt me, threatened me, and said I was only good for fucking. The things he said and did finally made me cry. I had never cried while “in . . . → Read More: Hurt and Comfort K and I had planned a long and involved ravishment scene tonight. I was really looking forward to it. Then I got cramps. “Long and involved” does not go well with cramps. Very disappointing. A few hours ago, K asked me if I wanted to have sex. Well yes of course I did; I nearly always want . . . → Read More: Playing {The following explicitly consensual BDSM scene contains extreme domination and submission.} She looked up from her book to stare at the clock again. They had planned a romantic evening, but when she had gotten home from work, there had been a message on the answering machine from him. He had to work late again. He would be . . . → Read More: Shut Up Once you invent something, get ready for people to start using it as a sex toy. The Wartenberg wheel/pinwheel was designed by a neurologist to test patients’ nerve reactions, but someone realized it would also work as a sensation and/or BDSM toy. Good Vibrations was kind enough to send me their pinwheel to review, and all . . . → Read More: Pinwheel Review for Good Vibrations K and I aren’t experts when it comes to flogging. The Pink Medium Rubber Whip that Babeland sent me to review is only our third flogger. I worried that the pink color would detract from the experience when K wielded it, though he doesn’t care a bit. As gender-savvy as I like to think I am, . . . → Read More: Pink Medium Rubber Whip Review for Babeland Toys The other day I was talking about sexuality, BDSM in particular, with someone who was pretty freaked out about it. She voiced a common opinion: “I guess it’s okay so long as it’s consensual, but liking pain can’t be healthy.” She meant “healthy” psychologically. I’ve discovered rather recently that I myself like pain in a controlled, loving, . . . → Read More: Coming to terms with BDSM |
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