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Thank You Babeland!

I got a package from Babeland today. While opening it, I was confused — I haven’t requested anything from them in a very long time, because I can’t promise I’ll even feel well enough to use stuff, let alone write a review. I thought maybe it would contain buttons and samples of lube . . . → Read More: Thank You Babeland!

Depression, and an update

Here’s the update: I’m in pain, stuck inside my apartment, on (prescription) drugs, waiting to hear back from Medicaid so I know whether I’ll have to ask my parents for upwards of $25,000 to pay for my surgery. K and I have to be incredibly careful about having sex, can never have it for a long . . . → Read More: Depression, and an update

I’m still here

I’m still around and not going anywhere. I have 3 herniated disks  in my back (likely from falling over when chasing a cat), so I haven’t been up to writing. But hopefully surgery will resolve this soon and I’ll be back to reviews and erotica . . . → Read More: I’m still here

e-lust #25

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Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. And in this edition you can read all about the best . . . → Read More: e-lust #25

On Bad Pain

We masochists are generally thought to be people who enjoy pain, and it stops at that. Someone very close to me once said something to the effect of, “lots of kinky things are just fine, but not masochism, that’s unhealthy.” (She didn’t know I was a masochist.) Dictionary.com’s first definition of masochism is, “the condition in . . . → Read More: On Bad Pain

Safe Word

One night, quite a while ago, K and I were playing rough. He got deep into me, physically and emotionally, was holding me down, hitting me, telling me he owned me — body, mind and soul.

I was crying and saying “no”. I was consenting: “no” is not a safe word for us. Though I was crying, . . . → Read More: Safe Word

Pleasurists #125

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Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

Did you miss Pleasurists #124? Read it all here. Do you . . . → Read More: Pleasurists #125

Laid D. 1 Dildo Review for Babeland

I was flattered and thrilled when Babeland offered me the Laid D. 1 dildo for review. It’s silicone, it’s a nice medium size, it’s sleek and stylish, and it’s a particularly lovely shade of blue. It comes in a nice solid box for storage. I expected to love it, despite its somewhat pretentious name. . . . → Read More: Laid D. 1 Dildo Review for Babeland

e-lust #24

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #25? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the . . . → Read More: e-lust #24

Told You So

A while ago, K said to me, “it’s kind of late, so let’s not have sex. Let’s just cuddle before I go to sleep.”

I said, “okay,” and followed him into the bedroom.

K told me, “take off your clothes, that’s cuddlier.”

I pointed out that we’d end up having sex if we cuddled naked.

K insisted that we wouldn’t, . . . → Read More: Told You So