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Beautiful Men: Richard Feynman

~In particular, [my mother] had a wonderful sense of humor, and I learned from her that the highest forms of understanding we can achieve are laughter and human compassion.~


~The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool.~


~My darling wife, I do adore you.

I . . . → Read More: Beautiful Men: Richard Feynman

Why I’m Doing This

Sex toys are fun. Money from affiliate links is awesome (and has occasionally paid bills). But that’s not why I have a sex blog.

A woman in the Michigan legislature was just disallowed from speaking because she said the word “vagina” when talking about male legislators trying to impose restrictive and deadly laws on her body.

That’s why . . . → Read More: Why I’m Doing This

Power of Love

Just a little break while I’m trying to fix . . . → Read More: Power of Love


Okay so. No surgery yet. But I am getting “used” to this whole disability thing, and I really miss this blog. I am going to be easing myself back into it, and I won’t be doing as many reviews, but I am here. First thing: eek my sidebar is a mess.

Second thing: my sex life is . . . → Read More: Stuffeths

Thank You Babeland!

I got a package from Babeland today. While opening it, I was confused — I haven’t requested anything from them in a very long time, because I can’t promise I’ll even feel well enough to use stuff, let alone write a review. I thought maybe it would contain buttons and samples of lube or something. There . . . → Read More: Thank You Babeland!

Depression, and an update

Here’s the update: I’m in pain, stuck inside my apartment, on (prescription) drugs, waiting to hear back from Medicaid so I know whether I’ll have to ask my parents for upwards of $25,000 to pay for my surgery. K and I have to be incredibly careful about having sex, can never have it for a long . . . → Read More: Depression, and an update

I’m still here

I’m still around and not going anywhere. I have 3 herniated disks  in my back (likely from falling over when chasing a cat), so I haven’t been up to writing. But hopefully surgery will resolve this soon and I’ll be back to reviews and erotica . . . → Read More: I’m still here

e-lust #25

Photo courtesy of Sadie

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. And in this edition you can read all about the best . . . → Read More: e-lust #25

On Bad Pain

We masochists are generally thought to be people who enjoy pain, and it stops at that. Someone very close to me once said something to the effect of, “lots of kinky things are just fine, but not masochism, that’s unhealthy.” (She didn’t know I was a masochist.)’s first definition of masochism is, “the condition in . . . → Read More: On Bad Pain

Safe Word

One night, quite a while ago, K and I were playing rough. He got deep into me, physically and emotionally, was holding me down, hitting me, telling me he owned me — body, mind and soul.

I was crying and saying “no”. I was consenting: “no” is not a safe word for us. Though I was crying, . . . → Read More: Safe Word